Q&A

Gifts

After sixteen years together, we haven’t created a traditional wedding list.

Please don’t feel that you need to give us anything. Having the people we love together to celebrate our marriage with us means so much.

If you would nevertheless like to mark the occasion, you might like to make a donation to one of a few causes that are particularly meaningful to us:

-Battersea Dogs & Cats Home

-Alzheimer’s Research UK

-Elton John AIDS Foundation

-The Fourth Choir

We also know that some of you may prefer to give a personal gift, and of course we would be very touched by this.

Please feel entirely free to do either or neither.

What’s the RSVP deadline?

Please RSVP by Friday, 9th of October, 2026

Accessibility

Both Southwark Cathedral and the Royal Academy of Arts are fully accessible. If you require any particular assistance or have any accessibility requirements, please let us know when you RSVP so that we can make sure everything is arranged for you.

Photography/social media

There will be a professional photographer discreetly capturing moments throughout the day.

You are, of course, very welcome to take your own photographs and share in capturing the celebration with us. We simply ask that you remain mindful of those around you and respect everyone’s privacy. If other guests appear in your photographs, please ask for their permission before posting or sharing them on social media.

Above all, we hope everyone can relax, be present and enjoy the celebration together.

What should I wear?

Please see our Dress tab for the dress code.

What time does the evening finish?

2am

Who should I contact if I have questions?

If you have any questions, please contact our assistant

Amandine: 07487645423.